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Lease or No Lease?

Author Annamarie Pluhar, Posted on September 4, 2012

Should all housemates be on a lease? It depends, and it’s an important decision to make during your selection process. Yes, everyone on the lease has a shared responsibility towards the landlord for rent and the care of the home. No, everyone is locked into the arrangement for a definite period of time. If the arrangement isn’t working, it’s hard to change it.

There is a good discussion of the legal aspects of sharing an apartment in NYC by Lisa Stellin, “How to Avoid Roommate Regret” in the NY Times. Leases don’t make relationships work. Sharing housing works when there is agreement on the essential ways that housemates must cooperate. Most importantly, these agreements must be made before moving in.

You can read more about picking housemates here, or if you want to know absolutely everything there is to know about finding and keeping good housemares, check out our amazing Guidebook.

After writing this post, The Common Law: Cash Rental Payments and Flaky Roommates showed up in the Austin Chronicle.

Filed Under: Finding Good Housemates, Keeping Good Housemates Tagged With: agreements, conflict, costs, expectations, sublet

About Annamarie Pluhar

Annamarie advocates for people to share housing for the benefits of cost, company, help and sustainability. Author of Sharing Housing, A Guidebook for Finding and Keeping Good Housemates, and founder of Sharing Housing She lives in Vermont with one two-legged and two four-legged home-mates.

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